Imagine that for the last couple of years, someone followed you around with a camera, capturing as many of your happy times as possible. What a gift to your family and friends, and what a gift to the photographer, to have captured so much of your joyful spirit on film.
Since 2011, I took that role with my beloved friend and artistic partner, Philip Wilson. I photographed all our adventures together, from one end of the USA to the other, especially Burning Man and Mexico. I documented every step of our joint art installation, Choose Art.
And then, just like that, he was suddenly gone, passing away too young and too soon last weekend. Although they make me cry now, I hope these images of his infectious smile will bring some joy and happiness to the world. That’s what he would want.
Hardship may dishearten at first,
But every hardship passes away.
All despair is followed by hope;
And darkness is followed by sunshine.
~ Rumi
Receiving his Master’s in Mad Science at Burning Man in 2011
At Mount Lassen, 2011
Working on Flutterby
Cruising on Flutterby in the ICW
With the Happy Spot painting he commissioned from Tess Murdock. It is the only painting on Flutterby.
On the beach in Playa Azul, Mexico
Tulum, Mexico
He loved to wear Tomas’ hat everywhere he went
Mexico
Climbing on Mayan ruins
Mexico
Mexico
Mexico
Enjoying the first of many post-retirement naps
Excited as a little kid at his retirement party, where he received a remote-control helicopter
His License to Chill from his retirement-“graduation” party
Visiting the coast near Santa Cruz
Soldering Choose Art in the backyard
Working on Choose Art at Burning Man, 2012
Reno Balloon Festival
I teased him about how compulsive he was about his phone
Grasshopper Cottage, in the Ocala National Forest in Florida
Mirror Lake, on the campus of the Ohio State University
Exploring Ohio
Clowning around
More clowning around
At Hocking Hills, in Ohio
Hiking in Ohio
We dyed Easter eggs in Ohio… over a month after Easter
Enjoying spring flowers
Philip loved purple, and loved the way these flowers matched his shirt
He always stopped to smell the flowers
He even enjoyed dandelions
Figuring out where to put the flower he just picked
Adventures in West Virginia
Camping in Ohio, where he was entranced by fireflies
In addition to red clown noses, he created two bicolored pink-and-blue ones, probably the only ones in existence
Burning Man 2013. He loved the Choose Art sign that Barry and I made and used it to decorate his home.
Reading Latitude 38 and dreaming about sailboats
Walking across the Golden Gate Bridge
He was fascinated by the construction of the Golden Gate bridge
San Francisco from the Golden Gate bridge
Curious about how this art was constructed, he ignored the “do not touch” signs
Trying to figure out an old piece of machinery in Colorado
Playing with an oven mitt he found in Bob’s kitchen
Enjoying fall colors in Colorado
Red Rock Amphiteater, outside Denver
A beautiful B&B in Colorado
Roxborough State Park, Colorado
Fancy breakfast at the B&B. He loved the yogurt parfait.
Dinosaur tracks
“You pretend to kiss the dinosaur, and I’ll take your picture.”
A surprise October snowfall in Boulder, and Philip’s brother Bob’s house
Philip’s personal photographer, Margaret, with the Commander of Chacchoben. Photo by Philip Wilson.
Well written, well photographed, well chosen. You have had a rare experience. Thank you for sharing what you can with us. Take the time to heal, and know that the love you pour out will come back to you.
Dear Meps and Barry: It is devastating to hear about Phil and I am sorry for your loss! These photos are a testament of his life “well lived” and I hope they will continue to give you cheer as the sting of his passing fades in the months to come. Hugs to you both. xox Candy
What a beautiful photo essay. I can tell he was a special person and great friend. Life is too short. Loss of these special people in our lives is so hard, yet how wonderful they made our lives to live. Thankfully, the love and memories last forever. Hugs to both of you. Love you both, Sharon (it was 3 years the 19th and it still brings tears to my eyes remembering what we had and lost and how much fuller my life is because of what we had)
Philip was my mentor and guide as I began my technical career in electronics design and general hackery back in the early 80’s. Philip will always be a wizard and inspires my work to this day. Finding this website was quite a shock. All my memories of Philip are positive. He made quite a mark in the world and will be sorely missed.
Thank you for taking the time to post this tribute to an amazing human.
Well written, well photographed, well chosen. You have had a rare experience. Thank you for sharing what you can with us. Take the time to heal, and know that the love you pour out will come back to you.
Your brief comments, sharing of Rumi’s poem and your photographs are a gift to us. Thank you for sharing them.
Lovely. What a special person he must have been.
Dear Meps and Barry: It is devastating to hear about Phil and I am sorry for your loss! These photos are a testament of his life “well lived” and I hope they will continue to give you cheer as the sting of his passing fades in the months to come. Hugs to you both. xox Candy
What a beautiful photo essay. I can tell he was a special person and great friend. Life is too short. Loss of these special people in our lives is so hard, yet how wonderful they made our lives to live. Thankfully, the love and memories last forever. Hugs to both of you. Love you both, Sharon (it was 3 years the 19th and it still brings tears to my eyes remembering what we had and lost and how much fuller my life is because of what we had)
Philip was my mentor and guide as I began my technical career in electronics design and general hackery back in the early 80’s. Philip will always be a wizard and inspires my work to this day. Finding this website was quite a shock. All my memories of Philip are positive. He made quite a mark in the world and will be sorely missed.
Thank you for taking the time to post this tribute to an amazing human.